From what I've witnessed at times, dating for women can be a sad, hopeless endeavor. I can see how women lose all hope in finding a decent man these days. - A man with manners, class and a man who knows how to treat a lady.
Look guys, if you've had date after date and none of the women seem to want to stick around, maybe it's not them at all who has the problem! - Maybe it is you! - And If that's the case, you may want to pay attention to my four tips below to help you become more likeable. One of the tips might help your situation.
Don't Be Too Loud
Some guys out there are just way too loud. It's like they just want to talk over everybody and be the standout or center of attention. I'm not sure if it's an alpha male issue or that guys who do this are trying to compensate for other issues and insecurities. Maybe they are overweight, maybe they feel unattractive compared to all of the other guys in the room. - Maybe they live at home with their mom. At any rate, don't be the loud guy, the guy that talks over everyone. This is extremely annoying and unattractive. Everyone likes to be heard in the conversation.
Don't Hit on Another Guy's Girlfriend or Wife
You would think this tip wouldn't have to make it to the list, but unfortunately it does. - Because I myself have had problems with guys hitting on my girlfriend and have seen plenty of other guys hitting on people's girlfriends and wives in front of other people. Sometimes they've had too much to drink at a social gathering, and sometimes these guys are just total jerks. So, don't be a total jerk! I assure you, nobody likes the guy at the party who is hitting on other guys' wives and girlfriends!
Don't Make Sexual Jokes
"Wow, that joke was funny. - If we were 15!" Sexual jokes can actually be funny, but there's a time and place for them. - And on first dates with a woman or at parties with a potential girlfriend is not the place. This is a short and sweet rule. Don't make sexual jokes with women you are wanting to date. And especially don't embarrass her in front of her friends by making sexual jokes. Bad move!
Don't Be Boastful and Arrogant
When it comes to one of my top dating rules for guys, this tip is definitely up there! Don't brag to impress your date! Be confident, but don't be boastful and arrogant. People are much more attracted to those people who are down to earth, easy to talk to, kind and also interested in other people.
Look Good
You may not be the most handsome guy in the world but that doesn't mean that you can't look good! Self grooming is extremely important and it doesn't take a lot of effort to clean up before a date and pull on a clean ironed shirt. If you date women looking like a slob it's no wonder that they're not interested in you. Small tips to remember include bathing, smelling good, and trimming away nose hair.
Don't Lie
Out of all the dating tips, this is probably one of the most important once of them all. I realize that more often than not it is easier to lie about certain things or even embellish on the truth to make your life sound more interesting. However the more you life the harder it is to keep track of the details and after your 4th date with the same woman will you actually remember the lies you've told since your first date?
Have A Sense Of Humor
Women love to date men who have a good sense of humor. If you can make her laugh half your battle is already won. This is because by making her laugh she is happy and enjoying herself. Laughing is also good because it creates positive vibes and leaves her with good memories of her date with you. When she remembers how fun this date was she'll want to go out with you again for sure!
Be Yourself
Most dating tips will tell you that there are expectations that you have to live up to in order to attract and date women. This is not true! Men and even women always forget that pretending to be someone else will not work for long. This goes back to the 2nd tip of not lying because sooner or later the truth will slip out. And besides, wouldn't you much rather have women date you for who you are rather than someone you are pretending to be?
Be A Mystery
One of the most important dating tips is to make sure that you are never always available. Women are curious and naturally attracted to what they don't know. So if you project yourself as a bit of a mystery they will naturally want to go out with you more. So when they call you it's advisable to not always be available at their beck and call. This is one of the most important rules of dating. Be nice but don't be too nice and you will have women always coming back for more.
Enjoy Dating
The final tip to succeed at dating and women is to actually enjoy your dates. There is no point in dating or trying to find someone if all you do is stress out on your dates on how you can make it perfect or how you sound or look like. Dating women is supposed to be relaxing and enjoyable. If you are not enjoying yourself she will be able to tell and in turn she won't have a good date either. Don't expect too much out of a single date and who knows; even if you don't find your significant other or soulmate, dating women could get you a new best friend.
Dating Tips Will Make You Succeed With Women
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