How To Make Any Girl Want You

 

How To Make Any Girl Want You

The big truths in life are simple, but powerful. In this article I want to reveal the truth most guys don't know about the mating game. Apply this principles and no girl will be out of your league.

Raise your standards

To become a chick-magnet you need to display the number one trait of the alpha male: confidence. You need to raise your standards. You are a king, behave like one. You deserve only the best. This attitude alone will make females crazy for you.

Guys who have low self-esteem always settle for second best. They take what they believe they can have, not what they know they deserve. They are miserable, and their body language displays all the wrong signals. In other words, they behave like losers, and as a consequence the world perceives them as losers. Of course, hot girls will never be attracted to losers.

Make them qualify themselves to you

Raising your standards will change your attitude. You will stop acting like a needy guy, and women will work for your attention, not the other way around. People give more value to the things when they need to work for them. If you make people work for your respect, your social value will automatically raise and, as a result, your attractiveness.

You should not rest your self-worth on external things, like money, or looks. This will decrease your power. It doesn't matter if you are a poor, old, and ugly man. As long as you are the only source of your power, and you believe in yourself, you can have anything you want in life.

Learn to display confidence and power, no matter what, and you will become a chick-magnet.

Know how to make them desire you.

There is a crucial element in the mating game: sexual tension. Women will only be attracted to you if they see you as a potential sexual partner. Again, it's not about looks, it's about your attitude.

If you feel desperate, and horny, you will scare females away. If, on the other hand, you feel as a worthy, and sensual male, women will feel attracted to you. Your feelings affect the way in which you move, and behave, and as a result how women perceive you.

So, you don't need to learn cheesy pickup lines, or mind tricks, to attract gorgeous females. You need to work on your self-esteem, and on your feelings. Remember, this knowledge is something you carry in your blood, not on your head. Unless you internalize it, and feel it on every pore of your body, you won't get results.

You need to project your confidence through your body language.

You can fake it till you make it all that you want to, but if your body language is not congruent with the image that you are trying to project, women are going to see through this. Knowing what to say to a woman is important, but knowing how to use body language to give a woman the right "vibe" about you is VITAL to your success with women. Position yourself right, and women will have an inclination to feel attracted to you.

 You have to be able to get the conversation started and then move it in the right direction.

It's kind of the man's job to lead the conversation in the right direction. If you are too timid to direct the conversation in a way that will get her thinking of you as more than just a friend or an acquaintance, then no way is she ever going to feel like she wants you. You have to create desire in a woman, and to do this, you have to be able to talk to women in a way that evokes the right emotions inside of her.

 You must be able to close the interaction in a way that leads to something MORE.

Now, I don't know about you, but I kind of got over the appeal of just talking to a woman a LONG time ago. If you want to have more action than just a little flirting and simple conversation, then you need to be able to close. Whether you get her phone number, a date for another day, or you get to bring her home... you have to go for it!

Make the most of every chance you can get.

One of the main differences between guys that get the girl, and guys that wished they could, is that the first kind of guy actually makes the attempt. Look, you are not going to end up making her want you if she does not even know that you exist. You cannot slump into the shadows around good looking women and expect that somehow you are just going to magically find the one. It WON'T happen.

Become a smooth talker.

Most guys end up with the wrong impression of what it really means to smooth talk a woman. It's not so much about lines or witty and clever conversation as it is making a connection with her. Women complain all of the time about meeting guys that cannot hold an interesting and provocative conversation to save their life. You don't want to be one of those guys.

Make Her Laugh

I swear, you can read through 20 dating profiles of super attractive women, and ALL of them will mention that they want a guy that can make them laugh. Do you think that there is any coincidence there? Serious conversation is all well and good, but if you really want to make her want you, then you NEED to be able to make her laugh WITH YOU.

Demonstrate qualities that this girl will find attractive

Remember how I said that a woman knows instantly if she's sexually attracted to a guy? Well, this is something that you can control. Even if you're not that great looking. All you have to do is demonstrate certain qualities she likes.

So what are these qualities? Well girls respond to many traits from guys like leadership, confidence, playfulness, fun, adventure and status. Once you understand and implement these traits, it becomes easy to showcase an attractive persona when you meet women. If you understand what she wants, you will subsequently know what to give her. This will lead to the start of the attraction that will drive her to your bed.

Approach her in a way that'll instantly make her curious

No woman wants a man that she knows she can easily get. This can be frustrating, but you can't approach her and immediately through cheesy compliments or pickup lines. To get this girl into bed, you have to first hook her curiosity.

What's the best way to make her curious? Well, you start by asking her opinion on quick question. The key here is to do this in a way where she's giving open responses instead of simple yes or no answers.

 How To Make Any Girl Want You Tips :

  1) Be Funny - Have you ever seen a fat, balding, not-so-good-looking guy with a beautiful girl? Of course you have. It's a good bet that you wrote it off as a gold digger with a rich guy. Not so fast. Sure, it's possible but a more likely scenario is that he makes her laugh. Women are attracted to men who know how to make them laugh like a moth to a flame. You can have a lousy personality, a face like a bulldog, no money, no car, no nothing and still get girls...if you know how to make them laugh.

2) Make Yourself Attractive - Looks aren't everything but let's face it, good looks will help you sexually attract her quicker than bad looks. Being a looker can even open a few doors that may be closed to those other guys.

So, take a good look at yourself in the mirror. See anything that needs improving? How's your haircut? Got a 5 o'clock shadow and it's only 12:15? Still working on that longest nose hairs record? Guinness should be calling any day now.

How about the rest of you? Need to drop a few pounds? Need a new wardrobe? You get the point.

If you truly want to know how to make women want you, you have to be honest with yourself.

3) Demonstrate a Personality - If you have the looks but no personality you're dead in the water. Women like a man with a great personality. If you don't have one, you'd better get one. Oh, I have some bad news - they don't sell personalities at the mall. Fresh out!

Try to show positive personality traits by smiling and making direct eye contact when talking to a woman. Eye contact denotes confidence. A confident man makes women wet. Wow, talk about sexual attraction!

4) Talk To Her - You don't need to be a brilliant conversationalist but you need to able to converse in an intelligent manner. You want to know how to make women want you? Talk to them.