Alpha Male Seduction - Alpha Male Dating

Let's be honest here. When most guys go out looking to meet women at clubs and bars, they are hoping that in some way, they are going to be able to seduce a woman into bed with them. That's what goes on in our minds, and it's not like you are going out just to try and have great conversation, right? With that being said, we all know that most guys end up striking out a lot more than they end up getting women into bed. What can YOU do differently so that you end up being able to get more women to want to go to bed with YOU?

Here are a few tips on how to seduce women into bed with you:

1. You have to be honest with yourself about what you really want.

Look, there is nothing wrong with wanting to get laid. We are guys, it's what we spend a lot of our time thinking about. You have to be honest with yourself and admit that. Sure, society tells you that you need to be that perfect guy that just wants to meet a woman and treat her like a princess. Well, you don't have to be a jerk, but you also don't have to go to the other extreme as well. If your goal is to pick up women with the hopes that you get laid at the end of the night, admit it to yourself.

2. You can't expect to get a woman into bed if you come off like a sleazy pick up guy.

There are different strategies when it comes to picking up women, and many guys have their disagreements about what really works best. However, what really cannot be argued, is that when you come off like a sleazy pick up guy, most women are going to be turned off really quickly. You need to come off a little smoother than that, make her feel like you are just trying to get to know her and where it ends up, well, it's anyone's guess.

3. She needs to feel like you are not going to run your mouth the next day.

Most women will protect their reputations when it comes to sex, and as a result, if she thinks that you are the type to run your mouth, then it's probably not going to happen for you. You have to make a woman feel as though not only is she protected with you, but so is her reputation. If she thinks that her reputation is at risk, you are not going to be able to wake up next to her the next morning.

4. Not all women are wired the same way, so you need multiple ways to approach.

At the most basic level, you might be able to argue that all women are wired pretty much the same way. However, going even just a little bit deeper, you'll find that there are lots of different personality types and because of that - you need to have multiple ways to approach women so that you can approach a broad range and not just one type. A lot of guys fall for that idea that there is "one way" and that just isn't true at all. You wouldn't approach an extroverted party girl the same exact way that you'd approach an introverted bookworm, would you?

5. One thing that does work on most women, though, is knowing how to start a conversation without sounding like a cheesy wannabe pick up artist.

For most women, if you come across like you really think you are a pick up artist or a ladies man, you don't get that far with them. They are naturally defensive when that is the impression that they get of you. On the other hand, if you know how to start a conversation without sounding like a guy who is trying hard to get laid, you'll do just fine most of the time.

6. Without sexual tension, you almost always end up with friendship or nothing at all.

The friend zone is a place that most guys end up in with women that they were trying hard to get with. If you don't want to end up in that barren wasteland of no chance at all for sex, also known as the friend zone, then you NEED to create sexual tension. Trying to seduce a woman without it is like trying to bake bread without any flour. It just doesn't work.

We've all known or at least seen guys that have some crazy and uncanny ability to be able to get women to want to go to be with them. I mean, sometimes, you don't even have a clue as to how they do it, it just seems to fall in their lap. Either they are just the luckiest guys on Earth, or they know something that you do not. Chances are, they know a couple of things that you do not know that make all of the difference in the world.

If you think that being able to seduce women is all about running game on her, then you may want to open up and learn a little more about what creates sexual attraction with a woman. It's not about the lines and the game, it's more about the way that she feels and the vibe that she gets when she is around you. That makes all of the difference in whether or not she ends up in your bedroom or as just another woman that gets away from you.

Here are a few tips on how to seduce women that will help you become "seductive" in a woman's eyes:

7. Communicate with her on a subconscious level.

Most people tend to focus on all of the conscious forms of communication, especially when they are trying to attract someone. Yet, experts on communication and human behavior will tell you that the majority of all communication happens on a more unconscious level, especially with body language. If you know how to communicate with a woman on that level, if you know how to make her respond to you that way, then you can easily make her feel as though you are the 'seductive' kind of guy that she just cannot say no to.

8. Do not allow yourself to come off as being too eager for a woman.

Some call it desperation, I call it being too eager. Anyway that you look at it, if you come off this way to a woman, she is not going to feel the same amount of attraction as if you are a little more distant, a little harder to read. Most women enjoy a bit of a challenge and they tend to find guys who come off as being challenging the kind of guy that they end up in bed with. Don't you want that to be YOU?

9. Make her feel like you know how to please her, right from the moment that she meets you.

Some guys just give off that sexual vibe that women pick up on and recognize right away. You want to be that guy if you want to know how to seduce women. Problem is, how do you let her know that you can please her without actually getting the chance to? It has to be implied, and this goes back to the body language thing, but it also can be demonstrated by showing a woman that you know how to lead her. After all, if you can lead her outside of the bedroom, then it seems more likely that you will be able to lead her INSIDE the bedroom as well.

10 . Don't be afraid to challenge her every now and again.

You don't have to be a total jerk to make a woman want you, but if you adopt the attitude that you need to suck up and agree with her on everything, then you are not going to be anything close to being a challenge to her. And if you don't think that women get excited and turned on by a little bit of a challenge, then you really don't know women. Don't be afraid to challenge her every now and again, you will love the response that you get from her.

11. Don't let her have all of your attention until she has earned it.

This might sound a little sexist or something at first to some guys, but it's not. To be honest, you are not getting *her* full attention until you have earned it, so why would you give her all of yours until she has earned it? It's funny to see guys that seem to give a woman all of their attention right off the bat and then wonder why they are not getting much attention from her. You have to make her see that the game is fair play, that she has to earn your attention just like you have to earn hers.

12. Get her to chase after you by pulling away from her.

The classic scene almost always plays out like this. A guy finds a woman he thinks is attractive and sexy and then he follows after her like a little puppy dog looking for some attention and approval. Even if all she is doing is getting up to go to the bathroom, he wants to follow her and make sure that she is not leaving him. And it ends up being a deal breaker, a game changer. Most women hate that kind of thing. What you need to do is to learn how to make her chase after you, by you being the one that pulls away from HER.

13.Alpha Male Seduction - Confidence

By dating more than one woman, you have a built-in way to bolster your confidence and maintain a healthy attitude. If one woman rejects you or turns you down, it is not going to harm your self-esteem when you readily move onto the next girl. It's about not putting all your eggs in one basket.

By dating several women, you never lose sight of the fact that you have many choices in life and that one woman is not the end all, be all.

14. Alpha Male Seduction -Comparison

Sometimes when you are only dating one woman, you take her opinion as fact. You think that maybe because she doesn't like your new shirt that means all girls will not like it. Not true. Dating other women helps you keep things in perspective and realize that opinions are not fact. You can also compare a woman's behaviors, integrity, and personalities. This helps when a red flag crops up and you can easily compare it to another woman and decide how to act.

15 .Alpha Male Seduction - Value

Dating more than one woman gives you a high-perceived value. Women - and people in general - tend to want what they don't or can't have. Dating several women shows you are in demand and will bring more women to your inner circle.

16. Alpha Male Seduction - Independence

A man who is dating several women is viewed as independent and sure of himself. He is the opposite of needy and clingy - two major attraction killers. She does not feel pressured to be with you, but wants to spend time knowing you can live without her. That's appealing.

17.  When you approach a woman, you need to feel relaxed and in control of the situation.

In all truth, most guys don't feel relaxed and in control when they approach a woman. They make it really obvious that they are feeling a little uncomfortable and even awkward. That's not exactly the way to get a woman in the mood, is it? No, you need to be able to convey the fact that you are relaxed and in control of the situation if you want to be successful at seducing a woman.

18. When you talk to her, you need to be able to get past the small talk.

Small talk is good to just get the conversation started, but if you want to get her to start feeling really attracted to you, then you need to get past that small talk. You have to make her feel more than what she would feel when any guys approaches her to start a conversation.

19. Your mindset is more important than any technique that you can learn.

This is usually one of those things that most guys will shrug off with skepticism, assuming the seduction techniques are the key to everything. While it is important that you learn some good seduction techniques to use on women, fact is your mindset will do more to make or break you than anything else. Anytime that you try to seduce a woman and you have a weak mindset about it, it's probably not going to happen.

20. Women know that guys who use obvious lines have only one thing in mind.

And if you did not already realize it, even sexually "liberated" women don't want to get a bad reputation, so if it comes off like all you are doing is dropping lines to get her in bed, guess what? You will probably be sharing the bed with no one. You have to realize that women are pretty clued in when it comes to things like this, and coming off like one of those guys who just drops lines in hopes of getting laid is going to make it hard for you to actually get anywhere.

21. Complimenting her too much can actually be worse than not complimenting her at all.

Those guys that get called jerks and yet get women with no problem at all, this is something that they pick up pretty quickly. When you give a woman too many compliments, it makes you seem like you are inferior to her, and all you are doing is trying to suck up to try and get on her level. Well, that usually backfires and can actually be worse than not giving her any compliments at all. The real trick is to find a natural balance, so that you don't seem like a jerk, but you also don't seem like a pushover to her.

22. You have to know that most healthy, emotionally fit women are going to desire sex just as much as you do.

Now, I know that there are a ton of women out there that have hang ups when it comes to sex, but usually, no matter how good looking they might be, they are not worth the hassle. You don't want to try and seduce a woman with issues, trust me. It's not going to be fun, and in the end, you will end up wishing that you never did.

23. A woman probably is not going to just jump in bed with you, no matter what techniques you use.

There is a process that you have to go through when you seduce a woman, and the ones that are worth going after and wooing, they are not the kind that usually will just hop into bed with a guy for the thrill of it. You have to create desire within her, and you have to make her feel sexual tension that she just has to relieve when she is around you.

24. To seduce a woman, you have to know what triggers sexual attraction for her.

It's easy to try and wrap all women up in some blanket statement and think that you can use the same method to trigger sexual attraction in just about every women, but the truth is, you will be a LOT more successful when you understand and discover what triggers sexual attraction for HER. This means that you got to pay attention to her body language, what she is saying, and all of the little signs that she is going to give you. When you can read them the right way, then you will know how to seduce her.