Attractive Alpha Male Body Language

Believe it or not, women are very good at reading your body language. That's why it's important for you to know some body language signs of an attractive male so you have a better understanding what women react to.

Oftentimes just changing your body language can have a positive effect on your behavior. It can make you more sure of yourself. But it's definitely not a cure for everything. If you feel insecure and doubt yourself, you will have a hard time showing how confident you are. So, here are some things you should and shouldn't do when you want to learn about the attractive male body language (some examples are only intended for the club environment but most of them are for all situations):

A good posture. I really don't have to go very deep into this one, right? It shouldn't come as surprise to you that nothing says better you are an alpha male, than having a good posture. It shows people around you that you feel confident in your own body. People who feel insecure often have a terrible posture. They are either too stiff or try to make themselves look as small as possible (by slouching). Keep your chest elevated and your shoulders back!

Crossing arms. This one shouldn't come to you as a surprise either. When you cross your arms, you demonstrate a closed body language and this tells a woman "Don't approach me!" I have seen so many guys do this in clubs, it's frightening (sometimes even for the girl). Think about it, when was the last time you saw someone cross their arms and laugh? Usually people cross their arms when they disagree with someone, or when they are cold.

When you approach a woman who has her arms crossed, your first goal should be doing everything so she uncrosses them.

Taking up space. A guy with an attractive male body language, isn't afraid to take up more space. If you look at confident people, they usually occupy more space. Some aren't even aware of it and at times need to be reminded that they should make room for others. This however, is also a good indicator that they feel comfortable in their body. Remember what I said earlier? Nervous people make themselves look as small as possible (to occupy less space) and this means that confident people do the exact opposite (take up space). So, don't be afraid to take up more space than needed.

A warning for you though: if you are thinking about using this to your advantage, don't overdo it! Don't go into cinemas, elevators or even clubs/bars and try intentionally to occupy the most space possible so that other people have a hard time walking past you. This kind of behavior is in no way attractive for women.

Slowing down movements. To make yourself look more confident and natural to others, try to slow down your movements. For example, if you move around, make your movements look as smooth as possible. If you are talking to a group, turn your head slowly towards the speaker and try to match your talking speed with your movements.

These were some attractive male body language signs that hopefully give you a better understanding how an attractive male behaves. But like I said in the beginning of the article, they aren't the deciding factors in attraction. A guy who has no clue about body language, but who has no problems approaching and interacting with women, will demonstrate most of these qualities.